Sunday, November 23, 2014

Introducing...OUR House!!

 YOU GUYS!!!!!!

I'm so excited to introduce you to our much-eluded-to-on-social-media-and-everywhere-else home sweet home!!! Let me tell you, the process of getting the keys to this baby was so excruciating and stressful that I don't know if I will ever relive them by writing them down. The short of it is, we came this close to losing both the house AND twelve thousand (yes THOUSAND!!) hard-earned, long-saved for dollars due to an incompetent lender. I also lost 7 pounds in as many days, 2 partial days of work and my sanity (which thankfully I think I found again). So if you've been wondering where we disappeared to the past month, consider yourself informed!
Enough of the drama - let's give you the tour! I must say, it is so exciting to share these pictures with you because the interior of the house no longer looks anything like this. The good shots are borrowed from the original listing and the dark ones were taken by us in a hurry before we started poking holes in the walls. We dove head first and are doing what I call "de-90-fying the house." In plainer English, we are taking the 90's out of it. We have had it in our possession for a mere 16 days and and I can't wait to soon be able show you the "after" photos to see the transformation. But first, the before.

Welcome to our living/dining room area! Through the arch on the right you can see the french doors (well you can really only see one door) to MY office (I called dibs!) and then down the hall to the left of the office, is the powder room and then the kitchen. If you came straight down the stairs and kept going, you'd head out the front door. 
 Here's another view of the living room, looking out toward the front window (lovely, built-in valance, eh?)
 And now the dining room and it's *cough* unique ceiling touches.
A nighttime shot of the office I mentioned. In the daytime hours, it is FLOODED with light.
The downstairs "powder room" which is not going to be altered much during this first phase of remodeling. Dang, someone left the seat up! I blame a male.
 And now the kitchen. To get your bearings, the downstairs has a circular floor plan. The hall to the powder room and office is not pictured but to the left and you can see the dining room chandelier through the door next to the fridge. Alas, the 90s will live on here in for another couple years until we can save up a pretty penny. Hang onto your hats for a big kitchen reveal some year, someday soon. 
 Here is the kitchen eating area with the kitchen in the background. It's important to note here that that wall you see on the left is the wall to the laundry room which literally bumps out about 3 feet into the eating area. Also, just out of the picture (those sneaky real estate photographers!!) is a half wall and post separating (and perfecting caging in the blocking the flow of traffic!) this eating area from the family room. 
 Now we're standing in the kitchen eating area looking into the family room and that half wall is directly to the left, just a hair outside of the scope of this shot.
We almost didn't buy the house because of this little number here: the laundry room. It's placement couldn't have been poorer and though we only had about 10 minutes on Graham's lunch break to tour the entire house when it first listed, I spent about 8 of them standing in the kitchen staring this little room. Even after we made an offer, the wretched laundry room haunted me and made me thing we should bail on the whole thing. 
I'm gonna throw in one of my own pictures so you can get a better idea of how the floor plan really urked me. Here is that half wall and post with the laundry room poking out to the right. If one were to put a table of any size in the eating area, BAM! Goodbye access to the family room.
But I digress....now let me take you upstairs!
There are 4 bedrooms and this first one is going to be Jack's. The kids' rooms are all pretty similar in size and there are hardwoods throughout.
 The kid's and guest bath. Please note the ceiling is also painted this lovely shade of blue!
 I LOVE our master suite! It is situated on the south side of the house and so gets tons of natural light. The entrance to the master bath is not pictured but is off to the right.
 The master bath will someday get a makeover but don't expect to see many changes here during phase 1 of our remodel. You can see the reflection of the entrance to the large walk in closet in the mirror. This is also Jack's temporary resting place whenever we are over there working on the house. Poor kid, he'll have an actual bedroom soon!   
 This photo does not do it justice but this is the bonus room of all bonus rooms! I think it might be around 600 square feet and was a major selling feature for me because, not only is it big enough to hold tons of toys and even a couch and sitting area, but we can also create some sort of guest accommodations in the little alcove there. If anyone has an ingenious idea how I can make it look like there ISN'T a bed in the middle of the bonus room, I'm accepting idea donations. Also not pictured are the two giant double-wide closets to the right. 
 And last but not least, our sweet little deck and backyard. It's large enough to play in and host parties on the deck but hopefully still small enough for us to keep up with without taking over our life. If you look closely you can see a little white porch swing hanging from the eve of the house. :)
For all wondering minds, no we have not yet moved in. We made haste in taking the move-in-ready but dated home to a currently-totally-unlivable-wires-and-nails-everywhere-but-coming-together-beautiful-disaster. Our hope (pipe dream?) is to be in by Christmas but that might have to be a Christmas miracle. Don't spend much time memorizing these pictures I have shared with you - I'm hoping you will hardly recognize the place when we are finished with it. We have made some amazing changes already and I can't wait to share them all with you!! Stay tuned!

Jack 13 Months

It's his golden monthiversary y'all! I don't have a ton of photos to document this milestone as I've traded in the "real" camera for a paintbrush this month. But I did manage to catch a few keepers (sort of) to share.
-biggest news: he FINALLY cut his first 2 teeth (bottom front center) on 11/15
-this explains a LOT
-he's been really cranky since, oh, September
-loves playing with his cousins
 -understanding lots of words: hot, binky, milk, bye bye
-saying more too: up, water, Grandpa
 -fav foods: milk, string cheese, bananas and yogurt (which he wants to feed himself)
-he's a food chucker
-everyday, every meal, all over the floor
 -so yeah, and he LOVES meat
-huge hunks of it
-developing quite the attitude about things and can throw a mighty fit
-hates diaper changes and attempts to fling himself off the changing table
-standing alone for brief periods now (only when he doesn't realize it)
-starting to climb!!!
-stairs included but only 2 so far
-waves bye bye and claps
-can walk hanging on with only one hand now
-this pic is blurry but too adorable to keep to myself
-he's finally big enough to rock his sweet sweater pants!!!
-and his super awesome spikey hair-do
-spends a lot of time napping at the new house while we try and work and sucking on paint brushes and rollers when we aren't looking...
-here he is: his first picture in his future new room!!!
-poor buddy has caught cold after cold
-maybe he's been healthy for 10 days all fall?
-and no, I'm not exaggerating
-despite his illnesses, he remains our sweet, busy, snuggly precious baby boy!

Wednesday, November 19, 2014

Happy Halloweenie 2014

 Better late than never with this post, I guess. We bought a house and it has essentially swallowed all our margins for the time being but I refuse to go completely MIA so here goes...
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 I'm not a huge Halloween person, thanks to my childhood where trick or treating essentially only happened in secret. This would probably explain why we ended up at Value Village two days before the big day, in desperate search for some costumes for the cuties. I made out of there only $21 poorer which was more than I was hoping to spend but, hey, sometimes procrastination makes you poor. Isla chose to be a ballerina again and even found a flowing headpiece to go with her ensemble.
Emma was the cutest bumble bee you will ever see.
And sweet Jack. There are no words for my little hot dog. 
He got a lot of sympathy points from the peanut gallery, since all the pictures I posted are of him crying. Everyone assumed he hated his costume but let me assure you, it wasn't the costume that was making him cry. It was the fact that someone had put him down to take the picture (heaven forbid!!!) It did cramp his crawling style, however....
Word on the street was that our to-be new neighborhood was a jackpot of a treat or treating local, so we nabbed the opportunity to go door to door and meet our future neighbors. The Welchs (one set of future new neighbors!!!) invited us over for a fun dinner of snake calzones before we went in search of candy.
What do you think? A future Mrs. Welch in the making?
The neighborhood did not disappoint. There were SO many people out combing the streets and it made for a really fun evening. The kids had a BLAST as they rang door bells with Emma saying "Happy Trick or Treat!" in her cute little voice. Somehow they got the idea that after each successful transfer of candy, they were to yell "Nailed it!" as they ran off the porch. We must have been quite the sight. :) Such a fun night!

Tuesday, November 4, 2014

Do not tire

The scripture "Do not tire of doing good" keeps running through my head this afternoon which I suppose is fitting since I greeted the day already weary. Life has been full and crazy and chaotic and disastrous and good and everything else as of late. We were supposed to close on a house (yes, we are in the process of buying a house - more on that later) on Thursday but numerous situations beyond our control leave us still homeless today, with growing anxiety over whether the deal will ever actually go through. So there's that.
 
This morning it was my MOPS table's turn to bring breakfast for the 60 women who attend.  I was up early (with all three kids, thank-you daylight savings!) trying to make an egg dish, braid hair, prepare fruit, dress children, slice pumpkin bread and throw something a smidge dressier than pajamas over my tired body. If you were a fly on the wall over here, you would already know that the morning hours definitely do not put me in the running for mother of the year. Just ask my in-laws, who can now bear witness (incredibly humbling). I may appear calm and poised in public, but getting out the door and getting anywhere on time usually involves a lot of critical words and a decent amount of yelling. 
 
Today was one of those mornings. Unfortunately, with Isla in school now, most of my mornings are now one of "those mornings." We have somewhere to be at the crack of dawn every week day which makes life fun. I usually spend our walks to school begging my kids for forgiveness for yelling and then praying over our day (that I could turn my sticky behavior around!) It's ugly, but it's the truth.
 
In all this, I have spent a lot of time reflecting and wondering if anything I am doing could possibly be having a positive impact on anyone. My stress levels are soaring and, if I allow it, my mind swarms with self deprecating thoughts. Then on rainy days like today, the dark clouds outside literally seem to creep their way into the house and deep into my soul, darkening it and weighing me down.
 
This afternoon, as I was filling the dishwasher and scrubbing the kitchen for the umpteenth time, feeling totally overcome by this this darkness, the words from Galatians 6:9 came to mind. "Do not tire of doing good for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up." I carried on with my housework and came across one of the pieces of artwork that my eldest left lying around (there are HUNDREDS!!!) It was very simple but it totally struck me. 
 
Yesterday, my sweet Emma got her finger smashed in the door jam. Before I even had a chance to scoop her into my arms, Isla was at the ready with an ice pack for her sister. And not 30 seconds later, she came running down the stairs with a personalized piece of "get well artwork", and proudly presented it to Emma. You probably can see where this is going but it was that very piece of artwork that I encountered while enveloped by dark clouds this afternoon. What a sweet and lovely and tangible reminder to me that our Savior cares and that what we do, does matter and that I must be doing something right. Somehow, some way, amidst the raised voices and stress, my kids are developing hearts of tenderness. Praise God for mercies that are new every day!

Monday, November 3, 2014

Emma 38 Months


This GORGEOUS girl has had a fun and busy month! Read on for a few tidbits about her.
-she is our riot, constantly making us laugh
-very in tune to the emotions of others and is quick to offer comfort
-loves her baby cousin!
-loves boats and the water and stand up paddleboards, apparently
-I still can't believe I let my kids go out into the middle of the lake on this!
-she is quite the playground climber now too
-loves walking Isla to and from school
-is Isla's little after-school shadow, wanting to play with her and all her friends on the playground
-LOVES getting dressed up
-wanted to wear her bumble bee dress constantly this week
 -is in that you-can-get-her-excited-about-anything phase which is I ADORE
-carved a pumpkin with Grandma
-Grandma asked if she wanted a happy or sad face
-Emma's response "Sad! I LOVE sad!!"
 -it was adorable, just like her
-she was a superstar at her second ever dentist appointment
-wasn't scare of anything (except for the Incredibles movie that was playing)
-she's fascinated by shots and dr appointments right now
-I took her with me to get my flu shot and she was THRILLED
-I think she seriously viewed it as a special date
-she watched the entire procedure and held my hand and helped me be brave
-I asked her if she wanted to be a dr or a nurse when she grows up
-"No, I think I'll be a penguin"
-she told me her big future aspirations another time too:
-"I'm gonna dress up and be so pretty! (pause) On Christmas Eve."
-here she is practicing for her grown up years:
-she's gaining much independence and dresses herself these days
-isn't she such a bohemian beauty?
-she's our mischievous, rule-ignorant one and it's never a good idea to leave her unattended
-"activities" of hers have included: coloring on the window sill, marking up her tights with highlighters, putting makeup on the master bath tub, climbing into the pack 'n play with a sleeping Jack, or just tossing tons of throw pillows on top of him
-there have been many more but you get the point
-but man is she ever sweet!
-she has the most adorable little friendship (budding romance?) with Leif (above)
-and she is the tenderest of mamas to any baby doll
 -she's done napping and she doesn't seem to think beds are necessary
-we stumble (often literally!) upon a sight like this about weekly
-she's our crazy, fun, hilarious and sweet girl!!

Sunday, November 2, 2014

Isla 62 Months

 Isla news this month:
-she's are busy-bee, always wanting to do, do, do little leader!
-she welcomed a new cousin, Leland James!
-loves hearts, as evidenced by the face of choice on her pumpkin
-opted to be a ballerina again this year for Halloween
-comes home from school and goes straight to her room to make art
-wants to be an artist when she grows up

-is doing great at school
-came home with 2 "Awesome Otter" awards for demonstrating responsibility
-is feeling very sad to leave all her friends when we move
-took her on a Starbucks date and interviewed her with various questions
-apparently interviews are her love language because she ate it up!!
-came away with a clean bill of oral health from the dentist
-is so organized and systematic that it cracks me up
-the other day I heard her yell "Mom! Emma just peed in her underwear! But don't worry, she didn't get any on the carpet. It all went in the heater vent."
-and thus commenced a month-long-multi-step sterilization of the heater vent procedure
-complete with signage a la Isla, warning us not to fall into the opening
-she loves homework
-and is doing well with reading, writing and spelling
-she can identify "helper words" and punctuation
-came across the old packet of bylaws from our condo and spent a good hour "doing her work," flipping through and looking for words she knew
-has developed leaps and bounds in the physical department since beginning school
-now loves to climb, slide down poles (the playground kind!!!!), and dangle from the jungle gym
-despite the decreasing temperatures, she is still always hot and rolls up her pants to make shorts...
-took a ballet class with her friend Lannie and LOVED it
-here is her spotlight moment at her last class (the "recital") where she was asked to show us her "favorite move"
-and here is the totally adorable performance of Be Our Guest by all the little ballerinas :)